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Mallory & Zachary

Hi! We are Mallory and Zachary — it is so nice to meet you! We want to start by thanking you for taking the time to get to know us. We admire the strength and unconditional love that have brought you to this point in exploring adoption for your child. We hope our story helps to give you clarity on the love, warmth, and joy we are ready to provide to your child. Becoming parents has been our greatest dream, and we look forward to raising your child and having them become the most important part of our world.

We understand that you are facing a very challenging decision. We hope to provide you with the support, comfort, and understanding you deserve through every step of this process and beyond. If you choose us, we would love to get to know you and develop whatever relationship you are most comfortable with. We promise to be there for you in whatever way we can throughout this journey.

Thank you so much for your consideration.

With love and gratitude,

Mal & Zac
John & Andrew Adoption Story

Our Adoption Story & Promise to You

We have dreamed of becoming parents since we first met. From early on in our relationship, we discussed wanting to adopt as part of our family building. We had planned to try to adopt after having a biological child while we were young enough to do so. We tried for years to have a child naturally as well as through fertility treatments and IVF. After years of struggles and heartache, we have decided that it is time to fulfill our dream of adoption, and that will hopefully lead to our calling to be parents. We both grew up with close friends and family who were adopted. We were lucky enough to witness firsthand how adoption can lead to loving family relationships, and this has been such an inspiration to us. We are very excited to share this journey with you.

Our promise to you is that we will love your child unconditionally. We will provide them with the support, stability, and comfort they will need throughout their life. Your child will be the center of our world. Through our ups and downs, we have learned the importance of communication, compromise, and trust that will help us be an amazing parenting team that can offer your child the security, patience, love, and compassion they will need to thrive. We will guide your child in achieving their goals and will be their biggest supporters. We will teach them good morals and how to be the best person they can be. We will also cultivate their interests and be their cheerleaders in reaching their full potential in whatever passions they want to pursue. We hope to provide your child with a life filled with laughter and unconditional love, where they feel safe and comfortable forming their own identity.

Lastly, we promise that your child will always know where they came from. They will grow up knowing their adoption story and that their story began with your undeniable love and selflessness. We hope to stay open and connected with you in whatever way you are comfortable. We would love to know more about your hopes and dreams, not only for your child, but for you too.

About Us

We met back in 2011 on an online dating site. Zac was the one who initiated by sending a message, and for about a month, we traded emails, phone calls, and texts, getting to know each other and realizing pretty quickly that we clicked. Once we both felt comfortable, we decided to meet for lunch. The date started with a funny hiccup – the restaurant we picked was closed for a “funeral party”! We took it in stride, had a good laugh, and ended up walking into a wrap place next door, and we sat there talking for three hours. Zac was immediately drawn to Mallory’s eyes, her laugh, and how genuinely kind she seemed. Mallory loved Zac’s sense of humor and smile, and what a true gentleman he was (I have always felt that she deserved to be treated like a princess). We even bonded over what some people might call “nerdy” interests like Harry Potter and Transformers.

After the date, Zac remembers telling his dad that something about this felt different. Later that night, Mallory sent a text while she was at a friend’s birthday party saying she had a great time and wanted to go on a second date. The rest is history!

Our story wouldn’t be complete without sharing how we each chose to get married three times! Our first wedding was in 2015 at a courthouse with just our closest family. We then had a big wedding ceremony and reception a year later in 2016 with all of our extended family and friends. Last year, we renewed our vows at the Las Vegas Chapel, where Zac’s parents were married. We had this ceremony in memory of Zac’s father, and it was one of the most special days of our lives.

When we’re not off exploring somewhere new, we’re happiest just being home together. We spend a lot of time with our dog, Rufus, taking him on local trails, getting outside, and unwinding after a busy day. We’re also really close with our family and friends, and there’s usually a board game night, birthday dinner, or casual hangout on our calendar.

We’re total food lovers and always on the hunt for new restaurants to try. Mexican, Italian, and sushi are our top favorites, but we’re pretty much up for anything. During the week, we like to cook dinner together while listening to music, which has become one of our favorite little routines. On weekends, you can often find us catching a movie, grabbing brunch, or spending time with the people we love.

About Mallory

Written with love by Zac:

Mallory is sweet, kind, funny, loyal, and caring. She brings all of those qualities into our relationship and into her work every single day. She’s been a preschool teacher for over a decade and is now an Assistant Educational Director. I’ve seen firsthand the impact she has on her students year after year. Kids thrive because she creates a warm, safe, and encouraging environment. She shows up with energy, patience, and genuine love for the kids and the work she does so much that I believe her understanding of child development and education will be a great help in parenting your child. Mallory is also very artistic. From craft projects to singing, there will be loads of opportunities for your child to be creative.

I have always said that Mallory is the kindest person I know. She sees the good in people, gives without expecting anything back, and would literally give the coat off her back to someone who needs it. I see that kindness in how she treats me, our families, our friends, and especially the kids in our lives. She has a natural motherly instinct that can’t be taught. Whether she’s with our nephew or our friends’ children, she’s always watching out for them, making sure they’re happy, safe, and smiling. I know she’ll bring that same love and instinct into our family.

In her free time, Mallory loves reading, crafting, watching reality TV, and listening to music, especially Taylor Swift. When we’re not with family or friends, she’s usually curled up on the couch with a book and our dog, Rufus, snuggled next to her.

Mallory is the love of my life, and she inspires me constantly. I know she is going to be the most amazing mom one day.

About Zac

Written with love by Mal:

Zac is truly my best friend and partner in all things. He is one of the kindest and funniest people I have ever met. His sense of humor, determination, and loyalty are unmatched. Zac can always lift my spirits in even the hardest of circumstances. Zac is the most generous and kind-hearted person I know. He has a natural capacity to love and accept people for who they are, and this is something I really admire. Zac not only proves this in our relationship every day but also with his friends and family.

Zac’s compassion and hardworking nature can also be seen in his choice of profession and his advocacy and care for the individuals in his program. Zac has worked with the intellectually and developmentally disabled population for over 15 years. His hard work, patience, determination, and years of expertise and respect in his field have led him to his current position as the Senior Director of the program. He works in a very challenging field, but his work ethic, leadership, and dedication to the individuals, as well as their families, and his staff, are unwavering.

What amazes me the most about Zac is his ability to go from being such a professional to the biggest goofball in the world. He loves to do imitations and joke around. He is the comedian of the family and always makes people laugh. Zac is also amazing with children. All of our friends’ and family’s kids love him and flock to him whenever he enters a room. His sense of humor and fun-loving personality are what first made me fall in love with him. I believe he will make an amazing father and be a hero to your child.

Our Home

We live in a wonderful and diverse neighborhood filled with young families. Everyone is friendly and neighborly, and it’s the kind of place where people look out for each other. We’re within walking distance of the local elementary school and just a short drive from restaurants, grocery stores, and anything else we need. We’re also only 15 minutes from the beach, which we visit often with family and friends, and the local pool is just a quick five-minute drive away. Our town has so many activities for kids like dance studios, pee-wee football, little league baseball, youth soccer, and more.

We moved into our house five years ago, and it’s become a place that feels truly like home. Our house is an expanded ranch with five bedrooms and three bathrooms as well as a living room, kitchen, family room, and basement. It’s comfortable, has plenty of space, and has everything we need now and everything we’ll need as our family grows. When we bought our house, we did all the cosmetic repairs with the help of our family and friends. We have great pride in all the work we put into it to make it our own. Our favorite spot is the living room, where we relax, watch TV, and spend time together. It’s also the main gathering space when family and friends come over.

The room is open and spacious, so everyone can hang out, talk, and feel at home. In the spring and summer, we spend a lot of time in our backyard. It’s big and open, perfect for grilling, hosting family gatherings, or just enjoying the weather. We have a great patio set where everyone can sit and talk, and the large grassy area is ideal for our friends’ kids to run around and for our dog, Rufus, to play.

One thing we are especially excited about is the future children’s room. It’s the size of the whole house, and we’re turning it into a recreation room for our future children. When we were growing up, we spent countless hours in our basements with our siblings and friends playing and hanging out, and just being kids. We want to create that same kind of space and freedom for our own family one day.

Rufus

Rufus is our 5-year-old fur baby. He is a Lhasa Apso poodle mix and is hypoallergenic. We describe Rufus as our “Sour Patch Puppy”. At times, he can be mischievous and silly, but he is also the sweetest and most protective boy around. Rufus loves when we have visitors, especially kids; he is so gentle with them. He loves to play and go on long walks and hikes. Rufus came into our lives when we needed him most, and he knows when to comfort us and when to make us laugh. He joined us around Zac’s birthday, and Zac still says that Rufus is the best birthday present he has ever received!

Our Loved Ones

 

We are both very lucky to have close family relationships, especially with our siblings and their partners. Mallory and her sister Ariana talk constantly throughout the week, and we love spending time with her, her husband Mike, and our two-year-old nephew, Nathan. There are lots of FaceTime calls, shared photos, and visits whenever we can make them happen. They are also expecting another little boy in a couple of months, and we can’t wait to meet our newest nephew.

Zac is very close with his brother Alex as well; they bond over fantasy football, sports, and card games. He and his wife, Maddy, live only about 15 minutes away, so we see them often. His mom lives just five houses down from us, which has meant even more since his father passed away, as we both share a special relationship with her. Having everyone so close has made a difficult time a little easier. We see his mom every day, and she checks in on our dog, Rufus, while we’re at work.

Our parents are very supportive and are incredibly excited for us as we grow our family through adoption. Mallory’s parents, Nadine and Keith, have already shown themselves to be wonderful and supportive grandparents to Nathan. They can’t wait to welcome another grandchild into the family. Zac’s mother can’t wait to become a grandmother and spoil our future children. Our siblings feel the same; they’re thrilled for us and can’t wait to welcome another little one into the family.

Mallory is very lucky to be very close to her childhood friends of over 30 years. They have been there for each other through all of life’s ups and downs. We started out as a tight group of girls and have now expanded to include friends of friends, spouses, and children.

Zac has a group of his best friends from college that he speaks to and plays video games with every week. Mallory is also very close to Zac’s best friend’s wives. Although they live in Maryland, we try to see each other a few times a year. We also get together every summer in Long Beach Island, New Jersey. We love getting that time to see everyone and all the kids. We’re also very close with Zac’s parents’ closest friends, a group we call the “Beach Crowd.”

We are truly blessed to have such a close and caring support system.

Travel

 

We both grew up in families that traveled a lot, so exploring new places together came naturally for us as a couple. Even though Zac is a nervous flyer, he still loves traveling the world. Mallory picked up on that quirk right away on our first trip and did everything she could to make him feel relaxed. We really do balance each other out perfectly in this way. Mallory is adventurous and a planner. While she gets Zac out of his shell, he helps her take time to relax and enjoy the calm.

Traveling has become one of our favorite things to do together. It all started with our first trip to Disney World, and from there, we found ourselves taking trips outside of Disney each year as well as road trips to visit friends. Some of the places we’ve loved most so far are Hawaii, Spain, St. Thomas, St. Kitts, and The Bahamas. We even drove all the way to Maine and fell in love with Bar Harbor and Acadia National Park, and we were lucky enough to road trip the entire Pacific Coast Highway in California.

Exploring new places has brought us so much joy, and we can’t wait to share those adventures with your child someday.

Holidays & Traditions

For us, the holidays are a time to get together and be with our families. We’re both Jewish, so we celebrate the holidays with the people closest to us. Usually, that means one night at Mallory’s aunt’s house, where her parents, sister, aunt and uncle, and cousins all gather. We share a big meal, laugh, talk, and enjoy being together. We also make sure to spend time with Zac’s family and the “Beach Crowd” on these holidays. At Zac’s aunt’s house, there’s always plenty of food, lots of laughter, and a few rounds of Taboo or other board games.

Thanksgiving is the biggest holiday in our family. For many years, Zac’s parents hosted three nights of Thanksgiving celebrations, with the whole family coming together. The last night was always our Hanukkah party, since some cousins were away at college during the actual holiday. This past year, Zac’s brother took over hosting so the tradition could continue. We celebrate with classic Thanksgiving foods, exchange presents, and watch Christmas Eve movies.

We also celebrate Christmas Eve at Zac’s brother’s house with a big dinner and presents under the tree. We celebrate Christmas Day with Mallory’s family. It’s a relaxed day where we order Chinese food, go to the movies (or watch one at home) and wear matching pajamas. It’s simple, cozy, and something we look forward to every year.

We also have a few traditions of our own. Mallory’s favorite holiday is Halloween. We love to decorate our house, make our own costumes, and go trick-or-treating with our nephew. We also love looking at Halloween and Christmas lights. Every year, we take Rufus for a drive around the neighborhood to see all the decorations. We usually end the night with burgers, fries, and milkshakes. We also celebrate birthdays with our friends; sometimes at someone’s house or out to dinner. It’s a chance to catch up and enjoy each other’s company.

In the summers, we spend weekends at the beach with the “Beach Crowd” and always end the season with a big pizza party on the sand. Zac’s aunt has a house within walking distance of the beach, and every Sunday in the summer, we all meet there for bagels and breakfast. The “kids” of the Beach Crowd (who are now adults!) have created their own tradition of getting together at each other’s homes to cook, laugh, and play games. No matter where we are, our holidays and traditions are something we look forward to every year. They’re full of love, connection, and memories we can’t wait to share with your child.

We hope our story has given you the comfort and understanding to help you through this difficult choice. With both of our combined work experience, we understand the many different challenges parents face and understand the importance of being an advocate for your child. Whatever decision you make, we support you.

We can’t thank you enough for taking the time to learn about us. If you feel connected to us, we would love to take this journey with you. We can’t wait to get to know you and hope to walk through each step of this process together with you. We have so much love to give and look forward to welcoming you and your child into our family.

With much love and gratitude,

Mal & Zac

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