Stacey & Pit
Hi! We are Stacey and Pit (along with our sweet boy, Bodhi), and we are so grateful that you are taking the time to get to know us through these pages.
We know that you are about to make an enormous decision. We fully understand what it feels like to love a child with all of your heart, and we know that you are coming to this process with the deepest kind of love that exists. We know the days ahead will be challenging, but we think you are being so incredibly brave, and we are here to support you however we can.
More than anything, we want to be there for you. We are here to answer any questions you have for us, and we hope we can have the honor of welcoming you and your baby into our world. Thank you again for considering us.
With much love and gratitude,
Stacey & Pit
Our Adoption Story & Promise to You
Before we were even married, we knew adoption would be part of our story. We truly see the beauty of creating a family from different places. The two of us come from different backgrounds, and yet we found each other and created a family, so this has just always felt like a natural extension of who we are and the life we have built together.
We ended up having a biological child first, knowing firmly in our hearts that adoption would still be a part of our future. Our son Bodhi was born in 2020. We cherished every moment with our sweet and cuddly baby, who became a sweet and cuddly kid. Once he turned two, we felt our family was settled enough to welcome another child into our home, this time through adoption. The process has been long. We have been patiently waiting for several years for someone to choose us, and it just hasn’t happened yet. We understand that this journey takes time, and we know in our hearts that the right birth mom is out there and that she will feel that we are the right family for her and her baby. We have not given up because we still feel that, without a doubt, adoption is the right way for us to grow our family.
So here we are now. We want you to make the right choice for you and your baby. If you decide that we are the right fit, we promise to fill your baby’s life with endless and unconditional love. We promise to expose your baby to fulfilling experiences and help them find their way through this world. We promise to nurture their interests and talents and to be there to support them through all of life’s ups and downs.
Our family is already a mix of cultures and traditions (Stacey is Chinese and Pit is Indian), and we would be so thrilled to add your baby’s cultural traditions into our home as well. We promise to do everything we can to make sure your child feels loved, supported, and important every single day. Your child will grow up knowing that they are part of a family that includes you, one where they always have someone to turn to.
About Us
We met during our freshman year of college at New York University. We lived on the same floor of our dorm and developed a really close group of friends. In fact, those friends are still among the most important people in our lives. The following year, we moved to separate places, and that slight distance was enough to help us realize our true feelings for each other. Pit came to Stacey’s apartment very early one morning with cinnamon rolls (Stacey used to always mention coming home to her apartment very late at night after hanging out with our friends and smelling those cinnamon rolls!) and we officially became a couple.
We were together for ten great years before we got married. While everyone wondered why we waited so long to get married, now we can look back and see how that decade helped us create such a solid foundation as a couple. We were growing into the adults we became. We supported each other through our first jobs (we are both incredibly loyal and actually both work at the same place we started fresh out of college!), cared for our two dogs Noot and Ella, traveled, and enjoyed our life in New York City together.
We got engaged in Central Park and had our dream wedding, actually two dream weddings! Because we come from different backgrounds, we wanted to celebrate both of our traditions. We had an Indian wedding (we even did a choreographed Bollywood dance with our friends!) and then an American wedding, which incorporated some Chinese traditions (the lion dance with traditional drums was a highlight!).
Now our family is made up of ourselves, our five-year-old son Bodhi, and our dog Ella. We feel like our daily lives are such a mix of ordinary but still really special. We have a pretty regular morning ritual on weekends. After we have breakfast together (and coffee for Pit, who has a pretty extensive collection of coffee gear!), we usually watch an episode or two of Bluey or a family video that we’ve made on our phones. Getting out of the house can sometimes be a challenge, but we eventually get out and head to the farmers’ market right downstairs in the local park. Then we are off to a local playground to burn some energy. Bodhi loves racing his bike around the track and will occasionally humor Pit with a round of soccer. One day over the weekend, we head out for a longer outing, which can be visiting with family nearby or checking out the exhibits at our local museums. The change of seasons is always our signal for fruit picking (apples in the fall and berries in the summer!). We are a family of sweet tooths, so we are likely stopping in at one of our favorite places for a little treat!
Weekdays are busy, but we believe the everyday moments are the heart of our family life. Pit loves biking Bodhi to school and back, and at the end of the day, we get to unpack his backpack and see what artwork he created. We usually unwind with time for cartoons or the Nintendo Switch together after everything else is done.
As parents, we know that the greatest gift we can give Bodhi and your child is our time. Bodhi always says that his favorite part of vacation is the special family time, and we really prioritize giving our attention to our family, whether we are away or at home. We draw together, make up games or play board games together, cook together, and just run around being silly together. Being a family is most important to us.
About Stacey
I am an enthusiastic, usually peppy, and (accidentally) loud person! I get excited easily and really try to find joy in as many ways as possible. I am also very creative. I love to sew – when someone says they like my dress, I get a kick out of saying “Thanks, I made it!”. Baking is also something I am passionate about and has been a hobby of mine for a long time. I find the process very soothing, and I especially love sharing sweet treats with loved ones. Now I love cooking with Bodhi – it brings me such joy to be in the kitchen with him. You will often find us both cooking together – he has become an expert at making tortillas and dumplings!
I am an elementary special education teacher. I work with students with disabilities ranging from learning disabilities to autism. Working with young children is a big part of who I am. I love their sweet individual personalities and watching all of the ways they grow and progress during the year. I feel so lucky to have a career that I find purpose and joy in. And you won’t hear me complain about having summers off! Being a teacher also means that I can take extended childcare leave. When Bodhi was a baby, I stayed home with him full-time until he began going to school part-time. I feel so fortunate that I will be able to be home to bond with your baby, too, and be a hands-on mom.
Written with love by Pit:
When Stacey and I were in college and no longer living in the same dorm, I came to realize how much I missed her and how happy she made me. I wanted to soak in that feeling, and Stacey has continued bringing me that joy in different ways ever since. She is incredibly loving and conscientious of the people important to her, and I have always felt like she would do anything for me and for our family. As a parent, Stacey’s love is expressed via her incredible thoughtfulness and dedication. Her love has no bounds, and she is constantly striving to make sure she is supporting Bodhi and his emotional well-being in the best ways possible.
I know how ready she is to welcome and love another child, and I know she will never treat your baby differently from Bodhi. It is in her moments as a mom that her deep love and willingness to sacrifice for our family truly shine.
About Pit
I try to approach life with a good sense of humor and a lot of patience. I believe laughter is essential, so you’ll often find me making up silly games at home or cracking jokes to keep us all laughing and remind us what’s really important. Our friends often say I can get them with a straight face so easily that they can’t tell when I’m being serious anymore. It’s all in good fun and a great way to keep everyone on their toes.
I am a big sports fan, both playing (myself or with the family) and going to sporting events. For me, sports are about more than just staying active. When I was a kid, sports taught me important lessons in teamwork, perseverance, and the joy of being part of something bigger than myself. I love the idea of sharing these values with your child, whether it’s by playing catch or cheering on our favorite team together. I also enjoy performing arts. While they are not skills I developed as a child, I have taken lessons as an adult to learn things like piano and musical improv. Taking these lessons as an adult has been incredibly rewarding. It’s taught me that it’s never too late to learn and grow, and it’s a great way to stay creative. I’ve especially loved sharing these moments with Stacey and Bodhi, whether it’s Stacey attending my improv shows or just making up silly songs on the piano on a Saturday morning.
I studied Finance and Marketing while in college, but quickly realized I was really interested in technology and how it was changing our lives. Because of this, for the past 19 years, I have worked for the same company in the tech industry in a variety of roles. Currently, I work in our Strategy and Operations team, where we have to make decisions about how the company should invest resources for the future. Working with technology helps me see both the positives and negatives exposure to technology can breed, and very much informs how I think about technology as a parent. I have been able to reschedule my days as needed. When Bodhi was a baby, I adjusted my schedule to take him to weekly music classes, and I hope to do this with your baby as well. Now I am able to chaperone school field trips. I have also been fortunate to go into his class to read, cook, and celebrate holidays.
Written with love by Stacey:
I fell in love with Pit as just friends at first. Our friends and I used to jokingly call him the leader of our group, and I quickly grew fond of him for it. He just naturally finds ways to include everyone and make everyone feel at ease. And his intentions are always so genuine. As our relationship grew, I fell in love with him for the way he takes care of me and makes me feel loved. I deeply appreciate our partnership and his ability to make me smile, even on a hard day. As a dad, he is the best of the best! The way he loves Bodhi for who he is and embraces his interests is beyond special. He has been waiting to welcome another baby into our lives, and I can see how ready he is.
About Bodhi
Bodhi is an enthusiastic and very affectionate five-year-old boy. He is so full of love and showers us with hugs and snuggles. We know he will be so thrilled one day to give his love to a baby sibling – he always talks about when we have a baby, and we cannot wait to see him as a big brother. We promise your child will have a fierce protector in an amazing older brother.
Bodhi is a very creative kid. We love seeing his drawings – it’s like a little glimpse into the way he sees the world and what he is thinking about. He is also really into LEGOs these days. He is very good at following the directions and building, usually some sort of truck! But the cool part is how he adapts and changes the design later – that’s the creative part of him coming out!
He is also a very active child. He loves to run and has even done some organized kid races in Central Park. One of his favorite activities in the world is riding his bike, so on the weekends, you’ll find us at the local school track riding around!
Bodhi is going to be the most amazing brother.
Ella
Ella is our sweet 13-year-old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. She has the most loving personality. She is an older dog, so she much prefers just snuggling close to us than running around anymore. But taking her for walks has been a nice part of our daily routine as a family. She loves kids and always wants to be close to Bodhi. After he goes to sleep, she always sneaks into his bedroom to lie down on the floor next to his bed!
Home Sweet Home
We live in New York City and we absolutely love city life! Getting around is so easy – we can walk, bike, or take the subway just about anywhere. We also love the access to so much good food! Obviously, NYC has the best pizza around 😉 We all have a sweet tooth and are always excited to try out a new local bakery.
We live right next to a park that has a great playground with a sandbox, swings, several slides, and places to climb. Our favorite part of the park is the farmers’ market. It is open four times a week, and we usually stop by all four days. Bodhi is always excited to see what new foods are being sold, and we think it has really helped him become a curious and adventurous eater.
When we speak to people who don’t know NYC, they cannot imagine living in such a big city. But we feel like we have found a little community, and sometimes the city doesn’t feel so big anymore. We constantly run into friends and neighbors walking around the neighborhood. We hang out at nearby playgrounds so often and see the other regulars, and Bodhi gets excited when we run into a friend he can have a spontaneous playdate with!
Our home is cozy with tons of windows and lots of sunlight – it looks bright and happy all day long, especially in the summer. We have a great view of the streets and park underneath us. When Bodhi was younger, we spent countless hours watching trucks drive down the street! We recently added some space to our home. We felt like this was a nice addition, especially for hosting friends and family. We call it an extension of our home, more like a second living room. We use it every day as a space to hang out and play. Decorating has been a fun project for the two of us. There is a large terrace, which was a huge deal for Stacey, who dreams of being a farmer – and now she can live that dream out in the middle of a busy city! We started a garden this year, and we have been so pleasantly surprised by how much has grown – tomatoes, blueberries, corn, zucchini, cucumbers, peppers, tomatillos, and even a tiny watermelon! Bodhi has really enjoyed running outside every day to see what new veggies can be picked. Pit especially loves the terrace because now he has a designated space for his pizza oven!
In the winter, our family loves to go skiing and snowboarding. Stacey grew up skiing. She has fond memories of taking an annual trip to Colorado with her dad and older brother. Now sharing this sport with Bodhi is extra special. Our family has a house directly on a big ski mountain in Vermont. We often head there with friends, skiing during the day and then playing board games and roasting marshmallows in the fireplace at night!
Adventures
Summers off have given us the gift of travel! We really adore seeing the world and experiencing new cultures. We go on a long trip each summer, as well as during most school vacations. We have been so lucky to visit some extraordinary places. Recently, we went to Switzerland (the alpine playgrounds at the top of each mountain are incredible!) and Italy (we had the best time making gelato!). Our family has a big soft spot for African safaris – we just went on our tenth safari trip! Bodhi has grown so comfortable in the wild, calmly sitting in the vehicle as we watch elephants roam, lions roar, or cheetah cubs playing.
We love seeing new places and experiencing new cultures, especially through Bodhi’s eyes. We can’t wait to include your child in our adventures!
Our Loved Ones
Family is so important to us. Pit’s family lives close by in New Jersey, so we are lucky to see them often. Pit’s dad loves to buy little trinkets for Bodhi, and his mom loves to cook for all of us. Bodhi especially loves it when she makes pakoras (fried vegetable fritters) and ladoo (nut-based sweets). We spend a lot of time with Pit’s sister Avani and her family. Bodhi is very close with his three cousins, who range in age from five to ten years old. When we get together, we often find ourselves planning some kind of excursion, but the kids usually end up having too much fun and just want to hang out at the house! They have endless fun together playing hide and seek, throwing balls in the yard, or blowing bubbles for hours on end!
Stacey’s mom and younger brother, Tristan, live outside of Boston, which is about four hours away. When we visit, we stay for several days, so it is nice to have extended time together. Stacey’s older brother Nick lives in LA with his family. Bodhi enjoys seeing his cousins on that side as well. The last time we visited them, we went to Disney Land for the first time, which was a lot of fun!
We are also very lucky to have a close network of friends who truly feel like family. Many of us met when we were in college, and we are still a huge part of each other’s lives. These are people we have known for over 20 years. We graduated from school together, navigated adult life together, went to each other’s weddings, and now raise kids together. We see each other regularly, letting the kids play while the adults catch up, and even go on vacations together.
Everyone has been incredibly supportive of our dream to grow our family through adoption, and they are all so excited and ready to welcome and love (and spoil!) your baby with open arms.
Holiday & Traditions
We love to celebrate and bring our loved ones together any chance we get. Halloween is one of our favorite holidays. Each year, we choose a family-themed costume. We make them at home from boxes or fabric. We love embracing Bodhi’s interests (we’ve been garbage trucks and tow trucks in the past!) when choosing costumes and then wearing them while trick or treating.
Christmas is a very special time for us, and we love that the festivities last for weeks! Right after Thanksgiving, we head to the farmers’ market and pick out our tree. We put on Christmas music and start decorating. We try to pick out ornaments from trips and other special family memories, so it is so fun to take a trip down memory lane as we decorate the tree! The holiday market in our neighborhood is always a fun activity, and of course, no Christmas season is ever complete without a visit to see the big tree in Rockefeller Plaza. We spend Christmas Eve with Pit’s extended family. All of the kids run and play for hours until they are finally allowed to open presents. We spend Christmas Day at home, just us. Then we head to spend the rest of the week with Stacey’s family. We love how Christmas is filled with so much time with extended family.
Bodhi’s birthday has become a special day in our family, and your child’s birthday will be as well! Once the party with friends has been had, every year we have a tradition of sitting on our rooftop deck and eating birthday cake together – there is something so fun about diving into an entire cake!
We know that our celebrations will change as children get older, but we are so excited to continue making new traditions with your child.
We hope this gives you an idea of who we are and what our life is like. Most importantly, we hope that you can see and feel how much love our family has and how much love we would give your baby if you choose us. We have imagined and dreamed of a second child for a long time. We feel so ready.
We would be incredibly honored to learn more about you and your dreams for your baby. We would love to be here for you and welcome you into our family. You are making this decision with so much love, and we are certain that you will make the right choice for you and your baby. We wish you so much peace and comfort.
With much love and gratitude,
Stacey & Pit
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